Istikhara

Istikhara on behalf of others: Sayyid Ibn Taaoos wrote:

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Istikhara on behalf of others: Sayyid Ibn Taaoos wrote:

“Although I have not put my hand on a tradition (i.e. hadees) that openly permits people to make Istekhaarah for others, I have actually found many traditions involving encouragement on helping others settle their needs even by means of praying God to help them or acting similar helpful devotional acts.

Other traditions have conveyed very much benefit for those who pray for their brethren-in-faith. However, because these benefits are well known by everybody, I will shun referring to them.

Istekhaarah is one of these requests and supplicatory prayers, and to make Istekhaarah on behalf of others is definitely included with the traditions of encouragement on helping the brethren-in-faith, because when one is asked by one’s brother-in-faith to make Istekhaarah on his behalf, this request will be related to the one who makes Istekhaarah;

therefore, he will either make Istekhaarah for himself or for the requester.

As for making Istekhaarah for himself, it must entail that whether it is or it is not useful for him to guide the one who has asked him to make Istekhaarah on his behalf to do or not to do the matter for which he has asked for Istekhaarah.

As for making Istekhaarah on behalf of the person who has asked for so, it must entail that he makes Istekhaarah so that the person would do or would not do the matter for which he has asked for Istekhaarah.

Of course, the latter may be understood from the general indications of the traditions about Istekhaarah and the other traditions about responding to the others who ask for something.

Text and Translation

In this respect, Allamah al-Majlisi, may Allah have mercy on him, says that the Sayyid has permitted making Istekhaarah on behalf of others is not inaccurate to some extent, especially when the deputy intends to guide the asker for Istekhaarah to do or not to do that thing.

To this point has the Sayyid made a reference. However, this is not direct ruling, because this matter requires a reference taken from the special traditions.

More precautiously, the one involved in the matter for which Istikharah is required must make the Istekhaarah himself, because we have not seen any tradition involving entrusting others with Istekhaarah on one’s behalf.

Moreover, if this were allowable or acceptable, the companions of the Holy Imams would have asked the Holy Imams to make Istekhaarah on their behalf. If this had ever taken place, it would certainly have been reported to us in one report at least.

Finally, the distressed person deserves response and his prayer for himself entails more sincerity than if it is done on behalf of him.”

Istekhaarah means asking for goodness. Hence, if you intend to do something, you may ask Almighty Allah to lead you to the best option. A tradition holds that one may ask Almighty Allah for the best option in the last prostration of the Night Prayer, repeating the following statement one hundred times:

اَسْتَخِيْرُ اللهَ بِرَحْمَتِهٖ.

ASTAKHEERUL LAAHA BE-RAHMATEHI.

I seek the choice [and guidance] of Allah, by His mercy.

Istekhaarah is also recommended in the last prostration of the supererogatory (mustahab / naafelah) dawn (fajr) Prayer and in every genuflection (ruku') of the supererogatory (mustahab / naafelah) Noon Prayer.